I have always loved your stories and have learnt from most of them. I have a situation and I pray I will get reasonable comments to help me out.
I am a girl in my twenties, young, have dreams that I want to make come through. I am dating a guy who is two times my age; he has never been married, he loves me so much and I love him too, but I have some issues to sort out. We are of different faith, he is sexually weak(he is a one minute man) which we have talked about it but no positive changes, and he wants me to just say yes to his marriage proposal without want me thinking if I really want to marry him. He is a very nice guy but I don’t want to get married and still have my eyes on other guys for sexual satisfaction because they say a woman becomes more sexually active at her thirties. And I am scared he will get worst than this when he is getting older.
Please I need your advice because any time I try to end it, I am scared I will hurt him, I don’t want to hurt him but I don’t know how to stop the relationship and I am not seeing another.
The writer is waiting to read your sincere advice. Please put yourself in her shoes and respond appropriately.