I recently stumbled upon the story of the lady whose boyfriend after proposing to her started suggesting skin to skin lovemaking. While I am not here to tell the lady what to do, I hope she will at least learn from my own story and mistakes.
I had two abortions for a guy who later abandoned me for another lady he considered smarter and prettier than myself. You read well, I was abandoned after two abortions. Just like your relationship, we were using protection until he felt there was no need for any again since we both felt we were faithful to each other and were at no risk of passing any STDs to each other. The suggestion made sense to me then and I bought into his idea. That was how we discarded protection. Three months down the line, I was positive with his pregnancy. You needed to see the surprise and panic on our faces as if we didn’t know the consequences of unprotected sex. Since we were both not ready for such a responsibility, we opted for abortion.
The fear of getting pregnant made us resort to condoms again after the first abortion but after a while, we went back to our old ways. I got pregnant the following year which was about seven months and some weeks after my last abortion. I nearly lost my life trying to terminate the second pregnancy. I lost a lot of blood. He apologized for putting my life at risk. The incident made us come closer than we were before.
I was expecting him to propose to me before the end of that year but what did I get? A huge fight broke between us, he picked quarrel over every little thing I did. Everything about me got him angry until he finally left me for another lady after our lengthy but rancorous discussion.
Ladies, I know it’s our bodies but let’s be careful who and how we offer them to the men that sometimes creep into our lives in the name of love but are just after our honey-well.
Thank you Juliet for your eye opening story, it has added another to the previous story.
In case you missed it, here’s the episode Juliet is referring to Dear Noble, See What My Fiance Suggested To Me