Well done with the good job you are doing. God will continue to bless your efforts.
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now and we have had sex twice. I found out I was pregnant last week and when I told him, he was willing to take responsibility but I am not ready to have this child now and if my mom should ever find out, it will kill her and I can’t even think of the disappointment it will bring her.
My boyfriend agreed to let us get rid of the baby, but ever since he consented to it, he has been coming up with one excuse or the other to avoid seeing me and make plans towards it and at the same time I am also scared to go through with it.
Please I need you guys to advice me like a sister because I don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t know if I should tell my mom and hope for the worst or go through with it and hope nothing happens. Please I really need help and advice.
The deed is already done, the best we can do now is to find the right kind of solution to the situation.
You have to come to terms with the fact that you are going to be largely responsible for your well-being and that hinges on making the right kind of decisions. That said, but remember abortion is not one of the options. I am more concerned with how to get your boyfriend to man up and take up his responsibilities towards you and show maximum support to you. He has to.
Your mother has to been informed too. Yes, she’s going to be devastated at first but once she comes to terms with reality, she will give you all the support you will need this delicate and sensitive time of your life. Please do not take long in letting your mother know but be prepared for some hostile and maybe shocking reaction but she will come to terms with it.
Be strong for yourself and your developing baby.
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