I am on the verge of exposing my amorous youth pastor. I got into a relationship with him in my third year in school. Our relationship started some months after his second visit to our campus. I must say that relationship was in no where near holy. Although, I was shocked and defensive the first time he made a move at gaining access to my body, I soon caved in. We dated for about a year and six months before he jumped over to another lady in my school as well.
When I returned home a couple weeks ago, I was reliably informed the same youth pastor is getting married to a totally different girl.
Noble, should I spill the bean. Should I tell the lady he’s dating in school, should I tell his fiancee in our church or should I tell the church authority? I want to tell, should I tell? Everything in me is seeking revenge but my rational mind is asking me to let go and leave him to however he pleases to live his life.
I will go with your rational mind. I will suggest you leave him alone. Like you said, you are just seeking revenge. I know there’s some kind of gratification that comes with revenge but to what effect? Just the way you found out, I’m certain the other girl will find out one day too but even if she doesn’t, that is no longer your business.
All the best.
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