There’s this thing about my boyfriend that has been disturbing me for a while now.
My boyfriend of barely six months has a habit of allowing this particular friend of his to use his apartment for his sexual activity. I mean this his friend calls him up on the phone that he’s coming with a babe especially on weekends and the next thing, my boyfriend will find a way to make us go out and do outdoors. Initially, I had no clue what was happening until recently.
I overheard him tease his friend on the phone about not making his bed very well after using it for his wrestling bouts. I waited for him to request we go out for me to confirm what I heard. Some minutes later, he requested we go out. I confronted him and he casually said he was helping his friend.
I’m not very comfortable with that kind of attitude. Noble, I want to know, is this thing common among guys?
I can understand how disgusted you might feel especially when you try to imagine what would have happened in your man’s room and bed in your absence.
I know that guys do that a lot on campuses and as single men. They consider it some form of gesture to their guys.
However, since your relationship with him seems to be getting serious, I think your guy should consider how you feel about that kind of arrangement.
Talk to him more, I’m sure he will listen to you.
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