Hi Lovelies, hope you all had an amazing weekend and are blazing through this new one. Thank God for the grace and opportunity to be alive and witness everything going on around us; good and bad.
So, in the last 6 or 7 months I realized that I am PRO-Black and a strong feminist (although the feminism was deeply rooted and it took a lot to control so I wouldn’t offend those egocentric males). I am now in tune with who I really am and don’t have to conform to the wants and needs of the society. But it is alarming at the rate which our generation is totally superficial; your clothes, your charisma, your makeup, your hairstyle, your material possessions are now a defining factor as to whether you fit in or not. How ridiculous!
Boys and girls are thinking of how cool and popular they are on social media, they live off the comments, likes and tags of their peers. An average girl today would rather know what her followers think of her new hair color than what her parents think of her grade in school. She would rather let IG, twitter and Facebook determine if shes acceptable as a sick size 4 than a healthy size 10/12. Why should my size determine my beauty and my worth????? Why should I be able to pull off ripped shorts and crop top with barely any belly and waist showing in order to “SLAY”
Honey, am a comfortable size 10 and if am very happy I move up to a 12. But really who cares? As long as my health and lifestyle is not at risk why would I stress my precious self. Abeg, who size 4 don epp? I have had several male species tell me things like “you know babe, you would look so good if you had a flat belly with abs and more booty” really??? So right now I look like what? A kangaroo? another said “Babe, for my sake would you add more weight around your waist and butt, I like you better” Hell No! you obviously don’t get, you and your sick delusion get the stepping before I break something beyond repair.
Beauty comes from within, I know its a huge cliche but its the intelligent truth. What happened to how sexy a person was just because they are so smart and have a huge sense of humor. They didn’t necessarily had to look like Kim Kardashian or Hugh Jackman to get our attention instead they just had to be brilliant and lively. I’d go for a guy who makes me laugh till I cant breathe and a junkie like me anyday, anytime than some stuck up chauvinistic abs carrying guy who doesn’t know the capital of Kaduna. Psssh!
All sizes are beautiful as long as you are that way in a healthy way and doing it for yourself and not because Becky or Charles said to. Slay in your wisdom, humor, skin, size and in your actions. Be good to everyone around you, help those who are struggling with self confidence, don’t get fascinated by fiction and glamour, stay healthy, get a check up done. We need to stay alive for those who loves us. Stay beautiful 🙂
To all those internet trolls who do nothing than throw shade and bring others down, y’all need therapy and love.
#Live #Love #Laugh #Eat
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