Let me share this to inspire you. I was once like you, that little girl with no dreams. But I grew up so fast because of my early experience in life. Once upon a time when all I did was pray for a man to be successful but never prayed for my self, maybe because I believed that some things are meant just for the men .
I met my ex in his room right in his fathers house, I prayed for him and he built a 1 bed room flat in his family compound. The family compound got so hot for me and I prayed again and begged God to give us a bigger place so we can move and he started completing his 3 bed room apartment.
I had so much hope , so happy I will have a big kitchen and a compound to myself , could not wait to have my room, as we went to inspect the place during weekends .But guess what , I never lived in that house, we separated before he finished . I even went back to beg him because I felt cheated and felt another woman will come and enjoy my sweat but he did not want again.
People suggested juju for me , some suggested prophet, and some said they will take me to Ibadan were they will make him come back to me so I can go back and enjoy my sweat but I had a powerful mom , God bless her . She told me, NKIRUKA, listen to me, there is nothing your ex have that you can not have only if u work hard. I took my mums advise and started my journey to succeed. This is 6 Flat’s for rent. Just wait until you see my personal residence . Abi Bom therapy lounge Hey you young lady. As you build with a man don’t forget to build yourself. You can do everything a man can do and even more. Build yourself is what we call plan B. I am a product of grace. Which color will I paint for my tenants sef.”