I have a problem and I hope you can help me. Some years ago(permit me to withhold the number of years so as not to give away my identity) the father (we are not married) of my kids left me for another woman. They had some children together (again let me not share the number so that give away my identity).
In the number of years since he left, we are in touch, we talk on the phone as if we’re best friends and he had slept with me as if we are still together. I notice that he gets jealous when he calls and notices my line is engaged or sees me with or talk with another man. Despite all that he has put me through, I’m still attached to our love, the love that brought us together in the first place.
Sometimes I feel like something is wrong with me for still holding on to that initial love and allowing him to still get ‘some’ from me from time to time.
Can you help me figure out what’s going on here? I’m not really sure what I am doing with him.