My parents’ union as husband and wife came to an abrupt end when I was about 11. The split generated as much bad blood as it could and both are now remarried. They have not spoken to or seen each other since and my mum is now married to the man she had an affair with. My relationship with my dad suffered during the divorce, and I didn’t see him for a year. It would be difficult to overstate my step dad’s role in my life. He loves me and has supported me financially and emotionally since my childhood, and people are often struck by our closeness. But my dad adores me as only a father can. I think of him as my father, but I love both of them. I will be walking down the aisle soon, and I need to make a decision about who I make this walk with. Every option seems to hurt someone.
What can I do?
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